tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post114348152423490119..comments2023-09-20T03:34:47.984-04:00Comments on My part of the world.......: Time to take out the trash!Acolytehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03673179447438729227noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143734067662701042006-03-30T10:54:00.000-05:002006-03-30T10:54:00.000-05:00@ joeAti you dont date!You are a man of great fait...@ joe<BR/>Ati you dont date!You are a man of great faith!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143733084592838762006-03-30T10:38:00.000-05:002006-03-30T10:38:00.000-05:00Joe,I wasn't tryin' to get personal with you! Had ...Joe,<BR/>I wasn't tryin' to get personal with you! Had someone else in mind. <BR/><BR/>2:55 PM, March 29, 2006 <BR/><BR/>LOL I know coz i dont date ,so it must be someone else .some of us are like isaac waiting rebecca to come on a caravan,no lyrics just faith and prayer .walkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13789042422515170213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143728516970523652006-03-30T09:21:00.000-05:002006-03-30T09:21:00.000-05:00@ kenyangalGood for you then!And no I do not know ...@ kenyangal<BR/>Good for you then!And no I do not know that is why you are here to school me in your dogma.Good luck with finding a cog to fit into your machine!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143727610774666932006-03-30T09:06:00.000-05:002006-03-30T09:06:00.000-05:00I am proud of being a wannabe (a wise man said tha...I am proud of being a wannabe (a wise man said that nobody got anywhere in this world by simply being content)and you know I CAN be a woman of leisure without having a man the two aren't mutually exclusive. I do want to get married though, i'll just be sure to pick someone that adds and helps my dream not subtracts.Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351695007181190630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143687355653099162006-03-29T21:55:00.000-05:002006-03-29T21:55:00.000-05:00@ kenyangalSeems the fine device called sarcasm an...@ kenyangal<BR/>Seems the fine device called sarcasm and irony are lost on you.I did not say that you want men only for their money; there is the status,luxury and security thing too.After all what is a future woman of leisure without those things.I get all that from the frequent incidents when you digress on your blog.My dear my ass isn't tired I have enough momentum to keep on going and going (it's just that you hardly bring anything new to the table whenever you respond).I took D-shy to 45 comments so this is just a walk in the park, so you need to stop being a wannabe and learn from one who is on the next step of being!<B>Capisce</B>?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143680148005961812006-03-29T19:55:00.000-05:002006-03-29T19:55:00.000-05:00@Minefield,glad we agree on the issue.@Joe,I wasn'...@Minefield,<BR/>glad we agree on the issue.<BR/><BR/>@Joe,<BR/>I wasn't tryin' to get personal with you! Had someone else in mind.Girl next doorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11786858603160127087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143674826779358802006-03-29T18:27:00.000-05:002006-03-29T18:27:00.000-05:00You *know* I'm a masochist? Just the same way you ...You *know* I'm a masochist? Just the same way you *knew* I only want men for their money... I don't know where you get all these misrepresentations but you really should start checking your sources!<BR/><BR/>Oh By the way, wake up from your sweet dreams! You'll find that in reality there was no cyber beat down.. it was a heated discussion whereby your sorry ass got tired and ran out of momentum. You need to upgrade to the next version of the acolyte.Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351695007181190630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143672804358361092006-03-29T17:53:00.000-05:002006-03-29T17:53:00.000-05:00@ KenyangalI know you are a masochist lakini it wa...@ Kenyangal<BR/>I know you are a masochist lakini it was getting a bit too much plus the fact that you were shooting yourself in the foot everytime you typed made me feel pity for you coz I doubt you can even walk now!Till the next cyber beat down!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143672598466870892006-03-29T17:49:00.000-05:002006-03-29T17:49:00.000-05:00ACO did bitchslapping get a bit too tiring? Awwww ...ACO did bitchslapping get a bit too tiring? Awwww :) Well all that typing can't be good for my manicure so I'd better go redo my nails.. Until next time!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143671615920203412006-03-29T17:33:00.000-05:002006-03-29T17:33:00.000-05:00@ kenyangalTo quote one of my idols, "A people sho...@ kenyangal<BR/>To quote one of my idols, <I>"A people should know when they are conquered"</I>.Ok what in the world is treating him to places?!And are you a gourmet chef?Coz I dont see how meals and dates at 5 star establishments are equal to your homecooking?What in the blazes are night things?I dont want to come up to my own conclusions?Sounds like the dude is getting the short end of the stick here Miss High Maintenance!<BR/>Much as you say it is masculinity that attracts you and not money in yor earlier answer you equated that with the ability to take care of business aka make money.Anyway it's a good thing that you havent strayed from your evolutionary roots and are keeping it real.<BR/><B>This correspondence is over - Editor</B>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143670101692359522006-03-29T17:08:00.000-05:002006-03-29T17:08:00.000-05:00@ACO here we go again,(rolleyes) expecting a man t...@ACO here we go again,(rolleyes) <I>expecting a man to pay for every single date and for your time does(constitute golddigging)(ps:do you charge by the hour or minute?).</I> you will find that i already addressed this earlier by saying that <I>longterm I will give back to the man by treating him to places, cooking him dinnr sometimes, night things e.t.c </I> <BR/><BR/>I don't peg *only* a man's worth to his greatness but in todays world that is one of the inidicators of greatness.. Martin Luther King and Gandhi went down in History but so did J.d Rockerfeller and Bill Gates. anyway, you have a wrong conception of me in that money is not the main thing that attracts me in guys, richness is attractive but what really does it for me is their masculinity, someone that will take charge and will have no problem wearing the pants in the relationship. Anyway guys that get pissed off at women that find rich men attractive are similar to ladies that get pissed off at men that find beautiful women attractive. I mean its evolution a man sees a beautiful woman as someone that is fertile and can reproduce and a woman sees a rich man as someone that can provide for her and her offspring.. But the same way many guys look for other qualities other than beauty (even though thats a bonus) money is also not a necessity for many women, just a welcome bonus.. XOXO I'm outBeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351695007181190630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143669695423216752006-03-29T17:01:00.000-05:002006-03-29T17:01:00.000-05:00@ joeSeems she has your number!@ joe<BR/>Seems she has your number!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143661775959729272006-03-29T14:49:00.000-05:002006-03-29T14:49:00.000-05:00fancy job titles and degrees, the Wall St. company...fancy job titles and degrees, the Wall St. company they work for- GIRL NEXT DOOR kwani you jua me lol haha! just playing but your defence is weak overwalkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13789042422515170213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143643649803340422006-03-29T09:47:00.000-05:002006-03-29T09:47:00.000-05:00@ kenyangalnot paying for the first dates doesnt m...@ kenyangal<BR/>not paying for the first dates doesnt make you a gold digger but expecting a man to pay for every single date and for your time does(ps:do you charge by the hour or minute?).Expecting a man to pay for your delusions of grandeur does,pegging a man's worth to his greatness makes you a text book example.The world has produced many great men ie Martin Luther King and strong women who stood beside them even though they didnt have much to take them to fancy restaurants and buy them fancy engagement rings.Read this and repeat it IT IS NOT WHAT A MAN DRIVES BUT WHAT DRIVES HIM THAT MATTERS!<BR/>@ girl next door<BR/>If the dude offers then he pays that's true.But this thing of women not even making token gestures and acting like prima donnas is bull crap!But for those who flash their cash they deserve what they get!As for dating jungus that one I am waiting for coz I love the reality check mamas get when they get here!<BR/>@ Guess <BR/>I feel your sentiments on dating.As for this being a fight, hell no!This is a beat down!I will stain the blogosphere with her!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143640831270263752006-03-29T09:00:00.000-05:002006-03-29T09:00:00.000-05:00Aco - you went and started a mini-fight in your bl...Aco - you went and started a mini-fight in your blog - I think you and KG should be put in a container like Vick did in <EM>The Shield</EM> and whoever comes out alive wins.<BR/><BR/>For me, I like to be prepared - as in I wouldnt jump on a jet to Miami with Richard Branson without knowing how I am gonna get back, what I am eating, or where I am staying - I have to be able to pay for myself, and by extension the other person - you never know peoples situations anyway and hey, a date doesnt have to involve money...<BR/><BR/>I would say Girl Next Door above put it best...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143632627689135022006-03-29T06:43:00.000-05:002006-03-29T06:43:00.000-05:00Damn, what a heated topic! I've got to air my view...Damn, what a heated topic! I've got to air my views. First of all, Aco, your post is hilarious although I've been offended by some of the sentiments expressed & I penda playing devil's advocate @ times. My definition of a date is spending time together. This covers activities outside the usual dinner and movie routine. The financially challenged should pick activities that don't involve a lot of $$ (hikes, walks, sports). Whoever initiates the date should usually pay most of the bill--of course the other person should offer to leave a tip or buy drinks. Men should be more honest about their life situations: when trying to impress women they flaunt fancy job titles and degrees, the Wall St. company they work for, etc. Many women mistake all these things to mean MONEY! Blame it on the Cinderella fairy tale for the crazy idea of Prince Charming coming to rescue! Stop reading those damn things to kiddos! Let's stick to Kaka sungura and Abu Nwasi.<BR/><BR/>I have more to say about dating junguz. I'll blog on it.Girl next doorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11786858603160127087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143624438253323142006-03-29T04:27:00.000-05:002006-03-29T04:27:00.000-05:00ok...I don't know how I've proved your point but I...ok...I don't know how I've proved your point but I know I've proved mine which is that men should pay for dates (because in my experience few ladies ask men out romantically)<BR/><I>@ Kenyangal<BR/>let's deal with this fast, I am beginning to tire of your weak protestation.If I or any man offers to take you out then I/he pays ok? </I><BR/><BR/>If not paying for dates because I don't offer to take men out makes me a golddigger then someone gave me the wrong definition of golddigging...Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351695007181190630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143594437643642092006-03-28T20:07:00.000-05:002006-03-28T20:07:00.000-05:00@ kenyangalI dont even have to argue as you are pr...@ kenyangal<BR/>I dont even have to argue as you are proving every single point for me.You make for a great case study as regards all the points I brought up in the post.Now much as I am having fun cyber bitch slapping you I would think that you would be tired by now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143589880840231162006-03-28T18:51:00.000-05:002006-03-28T18:51:00.000-05:00@ kenyangalThank you for proving my case for me!Ha...@ kenyangal<BR/>Thank you for proving my case for me!Have a good night!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143588377341881712006-03-28T18:26:00.000-05:002006-03-28T18:26:00.000-05:00Yes, I rarely pay for dates because I don't ask me...Yes, I rarely pay for dates because I don't ask men to go out with me but I would agree to go dutch on a date if the guy is of the LJBF persuasion.Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351695007181190630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143555066810565842006-03-28T09:11:00.000-05:002006-03-28T09:11:00.000-05:00@ irenaI think the heart does not enter the equati...@ irena<BR/>I think the heart does not enter the equation at all in this post, it's just sheer greed and avarice disguised as love.If people think white is right even though what the get is the bottom of the barrel jungus then by all means they should go for it!For those who want to make their money by long payments as opposed to selling it on the corner so be it!But I will still talk!<BR/>@ mocha!<BR/>Yes you said it!<BR/>@ prou<BR/>I have no problem in paying for a date at all!What I dislike is women who think that it is men's purpose to spend on them all the damn time!Furthermore they will never spend a penny in return and they wonder why they are treated like property.But I agree that people are petty nowadays.And as for those stereotypes eeeishhhh! <BR/>@ milo<BR/>Thank you for having the same effect as as an extra hole in a net on this discussion, we needed that comment!<BR/>@ Kenyangal<BR/>let's deal with this fast, I am beginning to tire of your weak protestation.If I or any man offers to take you out then I/he pays ok?But if a man asks you to go dutch will you go?I have my doubts.Do you ever take men out?Other then birthdays and fish falling from the sky I highly doubt it.As for majoring in relationship dynamics I think your track record should reflect your grade.Good luck in searching for your dream man,white wedding and life of leisure.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143549943724847772006-03-28T07:45:00.000-05:002006-03-28T07:45:00.000-05:00@ ACO first high maintenance woman CAN handle chea...@ ACO first high maintenance woman CAN handle cheap dates (we have different definitions of the term)and I should clarify that I've not yet earned the label of high maintenance - I'm still a flybaby in training and last but not least I don't feel any harshness in what your saying because I don't see any truth in it..i will never be convinced that if a man asks me out on a date I need to split the check, and infinitely I will prefer a man that doesn't like splitting things equally with the lady, longterm I will give back to the man by treating him to places, cooking him dinnr sometimes, night things e.t.c Well anyway, since i know what your sneakers look like and hopefully you can spot a "golddigger" when you see one we shouldn't find ourselves facing a bill at the end of a date.<BR/>OH! also I'm not attracted to feminine or emasculated men at all no matter how much money they have.<BR/><BR/>@ Machozi you shouldn't call someone you don't know sweetie as its very condenscending.. unless ofcourse thats what you wanted to be. Anyway, Acolyte didn't hit a sore spot but obviously this is an argument close to my heart.. if there was a class on relationship dynamics I would have majored in it.Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351695007181190630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143537696800796962006-03-28T04:21:00.000-05:002006-03-28T04:21:00.000-05:00HmmmmSearch for someone that fits your requirement...Hmmmm<BR/><BR/>Search for someone that fits your requirements and hope you fit hers. That age old game is called dating...<BR/><BR/>Let everyone else do their own thing. No matter how much people debate this, things will not change...Milonarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01573752810605404130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143535245504960712006-03-28T03:40:00.000-05:002006-03-28T03:40:00.000-05:00Black, white,green yellow wo/men are the same all ...Black, white,green yellow wo/men are the same all over the world. I kid you not. It is how you relate to them that will make a difference in your life.<BR/><BR/>Going on hearsay will not help and I tell you the amount of stuff being fed to naive girls like black men are serious studs with unbelievable staying power... white men are romantic they will bring you flowers. A man I know asked why he should bring a woman flowers that you cannot even eat si afadhali a bunch of sukuma wiki? Makes perfect sense to me don't you think?<BR/><BR/>I have to throw myself out now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-1143534796057384372006-03-28T03:33:00.000-05:002006-03-28T03:33:00.000-05:00Raw nerves all over the place.If I remember very w...Raw nerves all over the place.<BR/>If I remember very well if you ask me out you pay, as we get to know each other better we can share, I can pay or something like that.<BR/>Problem starts when some one plays well out of their league in terms of trying to impress "no let me pay".They start feeling the pinch when the mama says Ok pick the tab from now henceforth.<BR/>You cannot accuse her of gold digging, can you?<BR/><BR/>Then there are real gold diggers who can sum up what you cost in terms of attire from head to toe in a few minutes to see if they have hit the jackpot or not.<BR/>Lakini most chics are not like that I have no statistics aco but there are men who set themselves for such ventures. Trust me you can tell if a chic is into you for money or not unless you are blinded by lust which happens most of the time so really you cannot blame her still. Umejiletea huo msiba.<BR/><BR/>That said both man and women are really petty nowadays in terms of persons they deem fit for partnership. I have heard things like if he wears white shoes I cannot touch him with a 50ft pole even if he was the last man on earth. WTF!!! Kwani you are keeping the shoes company or the person? Ati if he cannot co-ordinate his colors, well kwani ni fashion show?? and so on.<BR/>Whatever happened to not judging books by the cover?<BR/>It is time everyone, both male and female stopped being shallow and then complaining ati there are no good men/women left. Like you said in an earlier post if you have nothing to offer in terms of qualities how do you expect the same qualities to come your way.<BR/><BR/>Meanwhile live and let live but with your eyes very wide open.Prousettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04367325529770099956noreply@blogger.com