tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post3498783967896080994..comments2023-09-20T03:34:47.984-04:00Comments on My part of the world.......: Masochism, Messages And Other ThingsAcolytehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03673179447438729227noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-15243494915871125342007-06-14T07:52:00.000-04:002007-06-14T07:52:00.000-04:00there is no way, someone will respect you if you ...there is no way, someone will respect you if you don't respect yourself. <BR/><BR/>it all starts with oneself.<BR/><BR/>stories like this are a dime a dozen but they still sadden me.Miss DeeGeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13169467848697382708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-46598192247892005062007-06-04T09:47:00.000-04:002007-06-04T09:47:00.000-04:00Ok so I'm going to swing this in a different direc...Ok so I'm going to swing this in a different direction ... just ... <BR/><BR/>Yes, it's unfortunate the kind of treatment some women tolerate. <BR/><BR/>I'll have to say though, I know plenty of men who allow themselves to be treated just as shabbily by their employers and they just sit there and take it. <BR/><BR/>Same crap different clothes, no?Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00161682859673971406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-67391438098193775732007-06-04T06:06:00.000-04:002007-06-04T06:06:00.000-04:00Dude,we must be thinking in the same wavelength c...Dude,we must be thinking in the same wavelength coz for the past week I have just been thinking about that proggi...'Life Goes On' and somehow I couldn't shake off its theme song... Obladi, Oblada by the Beatles...nway wierd that you posted about it!Sikujua u were telepathic like that ;)Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856601795795151464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-80762352055718119192007-06-03T03:13:00.000-04:002007-06-03T03:13:00.000-04:00As a couple of others have said, if you let someon...As a couple of others have said, if you let someone treat you like crap and also allow them to walk over you, best believe that they will! So it's her fault for allowing herself to be treated like that. Obviously she doesn't deserve that kind of treatment, coz maybe she has her reasons for staying in that relationship i.e maybe the dude is dangling the carrot of getting her permanent residency, so she's stuck with him. I hope she erevukas some time soon before she ends up with three of his kids and is stuck with him permanently.<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, I've seen a few of these situations before where a chic is stuck in an (emotionally) abusive relationship, where she has nothing tying her down to her man. Despite being given advice to leave, she doesn't. Probably she doesn't know anything better exists in terms of a relationship i.e if all she's known is abuse, she doesn't know how it feels like to be with a good man so she's like "whatever." i hope I've made some sense? Anyway such people are best left to see the light by themselves.Archerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12794327576006878481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-46433361337481928092007-06-03T00:29:00.000-04:002007-06-03T00:29:00.000-04:00yes we do love pain! all sorts of pain. and yoru b...yes we do love pain! all sorts of pain. and yoru blogs rock!hwambuighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04443462802760209666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-60785250439068618452007-06-02T10:34:00.000-04:002007-06-02T10:34:00.000-04:00Since that chick is not being forced to stay, she ...Since that chick is not being forced to stay, she must enjoy the abuse and deserve what she is getting.<BR/><BR/>I remember 'Life goes on' especially the obladi oblada song..<BR/><BR/>As for T-Pain..with a song like 'buy you a drank'...that just captures itGay Nairobi Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12974172069472091025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-88529121537020571772007-06-01T18:40:00.000-04:002007-06-01T18:40:00.000-04:00@ AnonCongrats! There are some people who have goo...@ Anon<BR/>Congrats! There are some people who have good support but still stay!<BR/>I think if it has been 5 years and she is still there, she is going to be there for a long long time.<BR/>@ half n half<BR/>I honestly dont think anyone deserves to suffer but if you remain in the situation you are in that is another story all together.<BR/>I do agree that some women have no shame in their game whatsoever!<BR/>@ chatterly<BR/>I too wonder why some women let me run over them like that, I really do.<BR/>@ iwaya<BR/>Let's just say I keep my ears very very open! Cynics dont get depressed at all!<BR/>@ movie buff<BR/>One day I am going to collect these stories and write a book!<BR/>@ 3N<BR/>I wonder the same thing esp since good guys always finish last with chics.<BR/>The longer you stay the less culpable you become.<BR/>@ majonzi<BR/>I think she is the one holding onto him for real.<BR/>@ three types of crazy<BR/>I do agree that if she wanted to she could most probably leave but she must have her own reasons for staying. I dont think he is black mailing her, she is the one who has just chosen not to leave.<BR/>I guess she is too afraid to take that risk of losing the house they live in.<BR/>As for the other mama, "what goes around comes back around..."Acolytehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03673179447438729227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-43951413790025481632007-06-01T16:18:00.000-04:002007-06-01T16:18:00.000-04:00People will only treat you the way you LET them.Sh...People will only treat you the way you LET them.She haslet him treat her like so. Not that she is entirely at fault, lakini if she is in this mess, kwani who is holding her legs.Maybe it is the immigration thing that keeps her where she is. Maybe he uses it as a hold on her. "You leave and I spill the beans". Hard to tell without listening to both sides of their story. <BR/><BR/>However if her name is not on the mortgage sii she stops paying it and watch the jamma find ANY job quick. Since when did beggars become choosers?<BR/><BR/>As for home wrecker "johnnie just come"- why do women think that a man who is cheating with You on his girlfriend will be faithful to you?Do unto others and all that.<BR/><BR/><BR/>I used to like watching "life goes on".Three types of Crazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09735370857357115774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-65113102460076293612007-06-01T13:44:00.000-04:002007-06-01T13:44:00.000-04:00That's a rather sad story/ He must have some hold ...That's a rather sad story/ He must have some hold on her... .Jujuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08850017927366791645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-64113060725103877362007-06-01T13:42:00.000-04:002007-06-01T13:42:00.000-04:00sometimes I wonder if chilez find joy in sadness.....sometimes I wonder if chilez find joy in sadness...how else do you explain such a case and many more that I have heard of?<BR/><BR/>Initially you should blame a guy for treating you like shit, lakini after the 3rd month and upto 5 years; you have yourself to blame.3Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15508099997637235715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-87214839040422378662007-06-01T09:17:00.000-04:002007-06-01T09:17:00.000-04:00Im telling you...those stories are a dime a dozen....Im telling you...those stories are a dime a dozen. So many mamas have dug holes and for some reason, they cant seem to get out of them.<BR/><BR/>There is only so much you can do sometimes to help these people coz its like they dont want to help themselves..... smh... its a damn shame!<BR/><BR/>T-Pain is beyond help.CiikuMrsBabeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04185792582756204078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-11879041376875649922007-06-01T08:58:00.000-04:002007-06-01T08:58:00.000-04:00where in heaven's name do you get these stories an...where in heaven's name do you get these stories and doesn't it get depressing for you after a while to keep running into more?Iwayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08353867386288869384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-60675392458800839072007-06-01T05:39:00.000-04:002007-06-01T05:39:00.000-04:00That chick needs to sort herself out...how does sh...That chick needs to sort herself out...how does she just swallow all the crap that dude dishes out? Kwani she feels like a garbage tin to allow such? the things some people will put up with, i can only shake my head :-(Chatterlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02079055207430169807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-4237273302164087162007-06-01T03:53:00.000-04:002007-06-01T03:53:00.000-04:00Yeah! 2nd AGAIN!Sometimes (and am not hating here)...Yeah! 2nd AGAIN!<BR/>Sometimes (and am not hating here) chicks deserve what they get! we teach people how to treat us! if you show someone that they can treat you like crap, then thats what they will do! <BR/>Girl needs to move on! <BR/>And women LOVE doing each other in! why would you sit all cozy with someother chicks dude! Arrrgh relationships! (GAG)Half 'n' halfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13206627065126856294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7486446.post-79278888638293872232007-06-01T02:19:00.000-04:002007-06-01T02:19:00.000-04:00In your face pple! am #1On a serious note though. ...In your face pple! am #1<BR/><BR/>On a serious note though. I think once someone is used to a situation it gets hard to leave. Unless they have a very good support system and people who are none judge mental to help them out.<BR/><BR/>One day hopefully she will see the light with the help of a good friend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com