Earlier I had posted something about if you were abroad would you marry a citizen if your time was running down.To add fuel to the fire you really did not love this person?It seems harsh from whichever side you look at it coz you are using this other person but on the other hand maybe you have nothing to come back here to, so you have to do what ever is needed to survive.
And the worst thing with odieros is that they fall in love and they fall in love hard.I guess that is why they go psyko when they are dumped.While on the other hand I know many Kenyan couples married that is who are not in love and most probably never really were but are really comfortable together.Not to say that we do not fall in love, we do but we do not place as much on it as odieros do we tend to be more pragmatic about things.
Anyway besides that life is hard and when you are an economic refugee you need to survive.And yes the life you may be living there might not be much much better then your life here but at least you are gauranteed a roof over your head.
Would I do it?Maybe.....but I would find it very hard to live with myself but on the other hand you could learn to love the person as with the new rules many countries have you would have to be together for a few years at least.
Anyway keep the comments coming
Friday, March 11, 2005
Monday, March 07, 2005
Would you do it?
Many of you blog readers out there live outside Kenya.What i would like to know is that let's say you're out there on a student visa and your time is running out and odds of renewal were really low.And to add to this there is a guy/chic from that country who really really likes you; would you marry them so as to extend your stay there?You really do not love this person but so as to extend your dream to live a lifestyle you have always aspired to would you do it?Let me know wouldn't you then I too will let you know how far I would go.
Elektra
Watched Elektra the other day.Let me tell you this, poor acting, mid-level stunts, mid-level special effects.If you have ever read an Elektra comic you would know that these guys didn't do the character justice.My advice rent do not go to the movies!We'll see if Constantine is any better.
Friday, March 04, 2005
Jamaas
Remember those guys I was raving with earlier and I had beef with one of them.Well I met the dude the other day and the guy was like really apologetic and stuff.not that I was really moved but I do not hold grudges as it is a waste of time and you really have to do something bad for me to use hate on you.I mean there are better things to do with your emotions.
So anyway I go on the rave and the dude and the other pal tag along.They insist on buying some spirits to boost them, thing is tha ti do not do spirits esp when driving so that was their thing.
So we get to the hanyee and me being the wise one I leave them to their own thing. I start small talk with this chic no too fly but fun to talk to.what made things even more intersting is that there was jack I wanted from her so hey no pressure.So it seems the moody pal is having a dry spell so he insists on bruting on my game.thing is that he is talking way too much so the gal really isn't listening so we're laughing about it whenever he strolls off; yeah that sounds mean but he was high anyway.At one point he wsa telling me to shift and I Was like no way.Then he even "whispers" into my ear that he wants to take the chic home.Of course she heard and told me that he really was not whispering but that's how that game goes everyone has dry days.got her number but I don't think I"ll call her she ain't my type, back to the sea she goes
So anyway I go on the rave and the dude and the other pal tag along.They insist on buying some spirits to boost them, thing is tha ti do not do spirits esp when driving so that was their thing.
So we get to the hanyee and me being the wise one I leave them to their own thing. I start small talk with this chic no too fly but fun to talk to.what made things even more intersting is that there was jack I wanted from her so hey no pressure.So it seems the moody pal is having a dry spell so he insists on bruting on my game.thing is that he is talking way too much so the gal really isn't listening so we're laughing about it whenever he strolls off; yeah that sounds mean but he was high anyway.At one point he wsa telling me to shift and I Was like no way.Then he even "whispers" into my ear that he wants to take the chic home.Of course she heard and told me that he really was not whispering but that's how that game goes everyone has dry days.got her number but I don't think I"ll call her she ain't my type, back to the sea she goes
Tuesday, March 01, 2005
Chanuka
Decided to go to A VCT centre for a HIV test by the way ever wondered why people call it an HIV test?just sounds wrong to me.Anyway I have already done one of these tests before.For me it was kind of a formality you see I am at one with myself at most times so I would know at a basse level if there was something wrong with me.Also I do not sleep around and I have never had unprotected sex.
The counsellor must have thought I was really cocky as I knew most of the stuff she knew but I do research and I do plan to work in Public Health.
Anyhow I also plan to go to either Australia or U.S so best know if there is anyhting wrong.It was good to know I'm healthy.But people out there stay safe and don't play games, it would be a shame to die over a shag.
The counsellor must have thought I was really cocky as I knew most of the stuff she knew but I do research and I do plan to work in Public Health.
Anyhow I also plan to go to either Australia or U.S so best know if there is anyhting wrong.It was good to know I'm healthy.But people out there stay safe and don't play games, it would be a shame to die over a shag.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
