Girl’s Diary
Monday 17 October 2005
Saw John in the evening and he was acting really
strangely I went shopping in the afternoon with the girls
and I did turn up a bit late so I thought it might be that.
The bar was really crowded and loud so I suggested we
go somewhere quieter to talk. He was still very subdued and
distracted so I suggested we go somewhere nice to eat.
All through dinner he just didn't seem himself; he hardly
laughed, and didn't seem to be paying any attention to me or
to what I was saying.
I just knew that something was wrong.
He dropped me back home. I wondered if he was going to
come in; he hesitated, but followed. I asked him again if
there was something the matter but he just half shook his
head and turned the television on.
After about 10 minutes of silence, I said I was going
upstairs to bed. I put my arms around him and told him that
I loved him deeply. He just gave a sigh, and a sad sort
of smile.
He didn't follow me up, but later he did, and I was
surprised when we made love. He still seemed distant and a
bit cold, and I started to think that he was going to leave
me, and that he had found someone else.
I cried myself to sleep....
Boy’s Diary
Monday 17 November 2004
Liverpool lost to Manchester United
Had sex though.
This story to me just made my day about the difference between how men and women think.I have always found it interesting the way men and women communicate.An issue I will go into later.Gotta run have to get ready for a bbq.
Saturday, October 29, 2005
Friday, October 28, 2005
Why should tribe be an issue?
I was just passing by some Kenyan forum and there was this jamaa who was talking about how when he meets some chics and they start chatting and many of them try to find out what tribe he is and when they find out that he is not kuyo they lose interest and some chic even told him that he is very sawa just that he is not kuyo.Also he was also very irritated that after salaams the first thing he is asked is what tribe he is.What was on his mind was does tribe really matter?He said that in Nai he had friends and chics from all different tribes but here tribe seems to be a big issue especially with Kuyos.I have nothing against being proud of your tribe but when it comes to the point of being arrogant,obnoxious and marginalising others that I can't stand.Because at the end of the day I dont think that friendship or love should know any boundaries.Yes it sounds idealistic but it is that kind of kuyo ethnocentricism that eventually led to situations like Rwanda.Don't think I am flaying kuyos as other tribes in Kenya are guilty but it is kuyos who are the number one culprits.Do you know how offensive it is when someone comes to you and starts speaking kuyo and it is obvious by looking that you are not kuyo?!I am like WTF!Kuyos unfortunately have become very despised coz of this and thinking that they are the best tribe under Kenya's sun.
But this isn't a kuyo flaying thread.Not all kuyos are bad but tribalism is.And kuyos are not the only tribalists other tribes out there are just as guilty.At the end of the day I guess that it boils down to the choices that we make, when I was in nai my pals were from all tribes as they were my friends first and their tribes last.I think Kenyans out here should see each other as Kenyans first and their tribes last because when the INS and other problems come for you they don't care whether you are Kiambu's or Kisumu's finest so we should all style up and look past this tribal crap.
But this isn't a kuyo flaying thread.Not all kuyos are bad but tribalism is.And kuyos are not the only tribalists other tribes out there are just as guilty.At the end of the day I guess that it boils down to the choices that we make, when I was in nai my pals were from all tribes as they were my friends first and their tribes last.I think Kenyans out here should see each other as Kenyans first and their tribes last because when the INS and other problems come for you they don't care whether you are Kiambu's or Kisumu's finest so we should all style up and look past this tribal crap.
Thursday, October 27, 2005
I'm addicted too
Me suffering from blog withdrawal!
I just read Mutumia's post and the interesting thing is that I had the same thing on my mind.Blog Addiction!This is what happens when I get into the office every morning at 8am.I go to the computer and log onto not my Eudora work account but no my Yahoo! address to see what comments have been left on my blog, then I answer them.After which I then do a tour of around 7 blogs or more of the kbw crew to see what is new.All the time commenting while laughing my head off at the funny stuff.As a result work for me starts at 9am or later.While work is continuing whenever it slows down I open the comments windows of some of the blogs I like and take part in the fun and games with the loony crew,also my yahoo window is always open so I can answer any fresh comments.Thank God I do not have yahoo messenger so as to chat to kbw crew members with on the comp at jobo!
Yesterday I knew things had become too much when I had a small quiz to do and before the quiz the prof said that we had 30 mins to go over our handouts.So I thought I had read pretty well and even though I had lost one handout I was like what the heck!I decided to go to the lib to pitia my usual blogs and I ran into Mutumia's post and I was laughing alone in the lib like a mad man.when I got into class for the quiz it was four questions and the last question was on the handout that I didnt bother hunting for in the lib.The question was about what Donald Rumesfeld told the Chinese when he went to visit them.As a result of me going to get my hit instead of hunting down the handout I ended up rewriting US - China diplomatic relations by giving Rumesfeld a speech that never came out of his mouth.A whole one paragraph to add!Sheesh!But like most addicts I had a back up plan that could still keep me in the stash.I had done his optional extra credit project so I can still keep getting high!Oooh I'm suppossed to be working now.If anyone out there has a cure...Help me please, these kbw blogs are too hard to resist!I know there are more of you who need to go public like akiey,m,poi,milo,nick,msanii,Ms K and the rest you know yourselves!
ps:Mutumia please desist from taking pics of me when I have just gotten up!
Wednesday, October 26, 2005
100 things about me expounded
So as regards my 100 things about me part 2.There were some questions about certain points.
For Mutumia
# 52.I used to go for power yoga classes - Well I used to have bad posture and it tires out my back and it gets even worse if I sit in bad chairs.So I was once taking a stroll in Sarit Centre and saw a flyer for classes and i was like what the heck!
Also since yoga is seen as primarily for chics in the West which is B.S coz in India all genders practice and the main yogis are mostly men.So power yoga appeals to me as it also strengthens,improves muscle tone and is very relaxing.
#69.Have you ever been to places like mashada and kenyaniyetu?Most threads start out fine then just degenerate into cyber brawls.Some of the language used in those forums would make a langa blush!That and there are always characters who seem to have some sort of feud going on.
For Nick
#82.Not that I would go burn down all porn stores but how do I put this.Hmmmmmm ok I wouldnt go out and buy any let's say that.I dont think it adds much value to one's life unless you are using it as a marital aid.I mean not many of you guys out there are going to take part in a 3some and it is not as glamorous as the movies makes it out to be.Plus I think that when you see one porn you have seen them all this is not including all the gross stuff like gay porn,the ones where people crap on each other and those that include our furry friends.But the implausible plots in porn are funny ie buff plumber walks in to fix sink at desperate housewives kitchen.In the middle of his work when he is topless and sweat is dripping off his chiselled physique; the housewife comes closer and asks if she could take a look.She is wearing nothing under her gown/housecoat and says in a throaty voice,"why dont you check my pipes now?"cue cheesy music and let the shag begin!Also I think porn just messes up men's perception of women and it doesnt help that mainstream magazines are moving closer to that in their pinups and cover ie We all remember the Toni Braxton Source cover.I have been to see pals who are watching porn and I dont even bother to look at the screen, but I think everyone should do what makes them happy.So if you enjoy porn by all means have a ball,bust a nut but I wont be watching it with you!
#93.Well i was "saved" sometime in high school and for sometime afterword.I even went to Bible School.But somewhere deep inside I knew and I still know that conventional religion isnt my thing.But I have no bile against it, I still pop into church once in a while.But I would rather read my bible,meditate and read the teachings of people like Buddha etc and use them to become who I am meant to be.
I eagerly wait that clip of kids being whooped from nick.The fact that kids can now cuss out their parents is just wrong to me.Anyway hope that has answered your questions.
For Mutumia
# 52.I used to go for power yoga classes - Well I used to have bad posture and it tires out my back and it gets even worse if I sit in bad chairs.So I was once taking a stroll in Sarit Centre and saw a flyer for classes and i was like what the heck!
Also since yoga is seen as primarily for chics in the West which is B.S coz in India all genders practice and the main yogis are mostly men.So power yoga appeals to me as it also strengthens,improves muscle tone and is very relaxing.
#69.Have you ever been to places like mashada and kenyaniyetu?Most threads start out fine then just degenerate into cyber brawls.Some of the language used in those forums would make a langa blush!That and there are always characters who seem to have some sort of feud going on.
For Nick
#82.Not that I would go burn down all porn stores but how do I put this.Hmmmmmm ok I wouldnt go out and buy any let's say that.I dont think it adds much value to one's life unless you are using it as a marital aid.I mean not many of you guys out there are going to take part in a 3some and it is not as glamorous as the movies makes it out to be.Plus I think that when you see one porn you have seen them all this is not including all the gross stuff like gay porn,the ones where people crap on each other and those that include our furry friends.But the implausible plots in porn are funny ie buff plumber walks in to fix sink at desperate housewives kitchen.In the middle of his work when he is topless and sweat is dripping off his chiselled physique; the housewife comes closer and asks if she could take a look.She is wearing nothing under her gown/housecoat and says in a throaty voice,"why dont you check my pipes now?"cue cheesy music and let the shag begin!Also I think porn just messes up men's perception of women and it doesnt help that mainstream magazines are moving closer to that in their pinups and cover ie We all remember the Toni Braxton Source cover.I have been to see pals who are watching porn and I dont even bother to look at the screen, but I think everyone should do what makes them happy.So if you enjoy porn by all means have a ball,bust a nut but I wont be watching it with you!
#93.Well i was "saved" sometime in high school and for sometime afterword.I even went to Bible School.But somewhere deep inside I knew and I still know that conventional religion isnt my thing.But I have no bile against it, I still pop into church once in a while.But I would rather read my bible,meditate and read the teachings of people like Buddha etc and use them to become who I am meant to be.
I eagerly wait that clip of kids being whooped from nick.The fact that kids can now cuss out their parents is just wrong to me.Anyway hope that has answered your questions.
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